Am i wrong for being a submissive woman?

I'm 26, married a few months, 6 year old step-daughter, trying to get pregnant & i'm a house wife. A while ago i met an old friend whom i had not seen in years. She is my age & also married. She, however is in what she called a "Femdom" marriage. Basically means that she acts as the male & her husband is the woman. I'm the opposite, i'm content to be the one who cleans & cooks in pretty dresses all day & let my hubby be the breadwinner. She told me that i'm crazy & i'm the reason females are oppressed. Am i wrong for wanting a traditional female role?