Baby Shower question..no rude answers, people w/ SIDS,etc.experience if possible please?

I agree with the first answerer. Why is it that society dictates it being wrong to have a shower or some sort of celebration for every baby born? I believe it is a stupid rule that people have decided to live by. All children born are and should be a celebration! I even think that if a girl gets married again, after being divorced or widowed, that a bridal shower is an ok thing to do as well. Just because it's a second doesn't make her any less a bride!!!